The Podcast

You say yes when you want to say no. You show up, make the effort, and try not to disappoint anyone. So why does resentment creep in? Let's untangle people pleasing, the invisible scoreboard we keep in relationships, and the difference between being needed and being genuinely wanted.

Everyone knows who the problem is. So why is everyone else doing the adjusting? The careful wording. The extra work. The things nobody says because they already know how that person will react. Let's untangle what happens when one person's behavior becomes everyone else's responsibility—and what keeping the peace may be costing you.

Some of the biggest decisions in your life are the ones you never actually made. You didn't choose to stay—you just didn't leave. In this episode, Sandy explores how we build lives by default, the difference between commitment and momentum, and what happens when we finally ask whether the life we're living is still the one we want.

You gave the answer. So why are you still talking? Over-explaining isn't always about clarity. Sometimes it's about managing someone else's reaction, approval, or disappointment. Sandy explores why over-explaining becomes over-functioning—and what happens when we finally allow a clear answer to stand.

People are complicated. Let's untangle this. In this introductory episode, Sandy Kaminski shares why she created People Untangled, what the podcast is—and isn't—and what listeners can expect from candid conversations about work, relationships, decisions, and the complicated business of being human.